What are the main problems we face in a Relationship?

Well, having problems in life isn’t bad. Actually, it’s normal in life so we don’t need to be ashamed of it & in the case of relationships it’s absolutely normal. But the risk is quite high in cases of relationships, just because it’s too much Emotion centered. A relationship consists of very sensitive strings of emotions & expectations. We all do expect many things from others, but we expect the most when it comes to someone, we really do Love & care about.

Now, let’s talk about the fundamental problems usually we face in a Relationship.

   1. Over Possessiveness.

Over possessiveness is the most common issue in a Relationship. In a normal relationship, possessiveness often occurs as a sign of care, Love & affection. But whenever that turns into over-possessiveness, it lights up the fire of ruining every understanding in between a couple. Most of us have some degree of fear and insecurity surrounding our close relationships. These all happens for some bad experiences about Trust, low Self-esteem, Fears of rejection, Loss or Intimacy itself. These deep-seated emotions can lead to a desire to control. And you’ll feel like tolerating your partner all the time.

   2. Controverted.

We can’t tolerate anything for a long period. That creates arguments for opposite person in our mind and so we start to express our suffocation through other things. Sometimes our way to express makes no sense but still we try to stick with it and then Controvert takes place which means, we don’t want to admit that we are wrong either way. And that makes our Relationship more Complicated & Suffocated.

   3. Misunderstanding.

Through that Complex and Suffocated RELATION, we misunderstand each-others and that is the worst thing ever happened to a relationship which leads it to the edge of your point of view to the negative side. And once the negativity takes place, we start to lose our trust on our partner. That can cause of a Serious Damage in our relationship.

   4. Contemptuous.

As Misunderstanding grows in between partners, behavior changes with their expressions towards each-others. When this all happens, they start to ignore each-others with their own actions. And here Contemptuous takes place and shatters each-others feelings. Improper behavior & Contemptuousness takes Respect away with a Half of their LOVE. Cause you know well that, without Respect towards partner and partner’s feelings, the Relationship cannot work. In that situation they get irritated & doubting on their Relationship.

   5. Immaturity.

When you’re going through these kinds of things, you can admit that your relationship isn’t mature enough and it is an Immature-Relationship. Because in that way I got my experiences about Immature-Relationship.

                                There’s no shame to be in an Immature-relationship! It’s normal, because every mature relationship faces all of these issues. If you really love your partner and do care about him/her then try to not hurt their Feelings, Respect & Trust. All you have to do is, go to your partner and gently share your feelings, tell them how do you feel about them and share your issues. When you’ll do that, you’ll see that your partner will share issues with you. And try to solve every issue together. A relationship is not all about only you or your partner, it's about equally you both. In that way you guys can drive your relationship to a Mature-relationship. Always remember,

“If you cannot be a best friend of your partner, then you cannot experience what a true relationship is”- Rinki Biswas (Mom).

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